Prohibition of Disobeying Parents and severance of Relations
باب تحريم العقوق وقطيعة الرحم
Riyad as-Saliheen, Book of Miscellany(view book)
Abu Bakrah Nufai' bin Al-Harith (May Allah be pleased with him) reported:
Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "Shall I not inform you of the biggest of the major sins?" Messenger of Allah ﷺ asked this question thrice. We said, "Yes, O Messenger of Allah. (Please inform us.)". He said, "Ascribing partners to Allah, and to be undutiful to your parents". Messenger of Allah ﷺ sat up from his reclining position and said, "And I warn you against giving forged statement and a false testimony; I warn you against giving forged statement and a false testimony". Messenger of Allah ﷺ kept on repeating that warning till we wished he would stop.
[Al-Bukhari and Muslim].
و عن أبي بكرة نفيع بن الحارث رضي الله عنه قال: قال رسول الله ﷺ: "ألا أنبئكم بأكبر الكبائر؟" -ثلاثًا- قلنا: بلى يا رسول الله: قال: "الإشراك بالله، وعقوق الوالدين، وقتل النفس، واليمين الغموس" ((رواه البخاري)).
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Abdullah bin 'Amr bin Al-'as (May Allah be pleased with them) reported:
The Prophet ﷺ said, "(Of the) major sins are: to ascribe partners to Allah, disobey parents, murder someone, and to take a false oath (intentionally)".
[Al-Bukhari].
وعن عبد الله بن عمرو بن العاص رضي الله عنهما عن النَّبيّ قَالَ : « الكَبَائِرُ : الإشْرَاكُ بالله ، وَعُقُوقُ الوَالِدَيْنِ ، وَقَتْلُ النَّفْس ، وَاليَمِينُ الغَمُوسُ » . رواه البخاري .
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'Abdullah bin 'Amr bin Al-'as (May Allah be pleased with them) reported:
Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "It is one of the gravest sins to abuse one's parents." It was asked (by the people): "O Messenger of Allah, can a man abuse his own parents?" Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "He abuses the father of somebody who, in return, abuses the former's father; he then abuses the mother of somebody who, in return, abuses his mother".
[Al-Bukhari and Muslim].
Another narration is: Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "One of the major sins is to curse one's parents". It was submitted: "O Messenger of Allah! How can a man curse his own parents?" He ﷺ said, "When someone curses the parents of another man who in return abuses the former's father; and when someone abuses the mother of another man who in return abuses his mother."
وعنه أن رسول الله ﷺ قال: "من الكبائر شتم الرجل والديه!" قالوا: يا رسول الله وهل يشتم الرجل والديه؟ ! قال: "نعم؛ يسب أبا الرجل، فيسب أباه، ويسب أمه، فيسب أمه" ((متفق عليه)) . وفي رواية "إن من أكبر الكبائر أن يلعن الرجل والديه!" قيل : يا رسول الله كيف يلعن الرجل والديه؟ ! قال "يسب أبا الرجل ، فيسب أباه، ويسب أمه، فيسب أمه".
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Abu Muhammad Jubair bin Mut'im (May Allah be pleased with him) reported:
Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "The person who severs the bond of kinship will not enter Jannah".
[Al-Bukhari and Muslim].
وعن أبي محمد جبير من مطعم رضي الله عنه أن رسول الله ﷺ قال: "لايدخل الجنة قاطع" قال سفيان في روايته: يعني : قاطع رحم . ((متفق عليه)) .
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Abu 'Isa Al-Mughirah bin Shu'bah (May Allah be pleased with him) reported:
The Prophet ﷺ said, "Allah has forbidden you: disobedience to your mothers, to withhold (what you should give), or demand (what you do not deserve), and to bury your daughters alive. And Allah dislikes idle talk, to ask too many questions (for things which will be of no benefit to one), and to waste your wealth".
[Al-Bukhari and Muslim].
وعن أبي عيسى المغيرة بن شعبة رضي الله عنه عن النبي ﷺ قال: "إن الله تعالى حرم عليكم عقوق الأمهات، ومنعًا وهات، ووأد البنات، وكره لكم قيل وقال، وكثرة السؤال ، وإضاعة المال" ((متفق عليه)) .