Husband's rights concerning his Wife
باب حق الزوج على المرأة
Riyad as-Saliheen, Book of Miscellany(view book)
Abu Hurairah (May Allah be pleased with him) reported:
Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "When a man calls his wife to his bed, and she does not respond and he (the husband) spends the night angry with her, the angels curse her until morning".
[Al-Bukhari and Muslim].
In another narration: The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "When a woman spends the night away from the bed of her husband, the angels curse her until morning".
[Al-Bukhari and Muslim].
In another narration: Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "By Him in Whose Hand is my life, when a man calls his wife to his bed, and she does not respond, the One Who is above the heaven becomes displeased with her until he (her husband) becomes pleased with her".
[Al-Bukhari and Muslim].
وعن أبي هريرة رضي الله عنه قال: قال رسول الله ﷺ :"إذا دعا الرجل امرأته إلى فراشه فلم تأته فبات غضبان عليها لعنتها الملائكة حتى تصبح" ((متفق عليه)). وفي رواية لها "إذا باتت المرأة هاجرة فراش زوجها لعنتها الملائكة حتى تصبح".وفي رواية قال رسول الله ﷺ : " والذي نفسي بيده ما من رجل يدعو امرأته إلى فراشه فتأبى عليه إلا كان الذي في السماء ساخطًا عليها حتى يرضي عنها".
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Abu Hurairah (May Allah be pleased with him) reported:
Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "It is not lawful for a woman to observe (voluntary) fasting without the permission of her husband when he is at home; and she should not allow anyone to enter his house without his permission.".
[Al-Bukhari and Muslim].
وعن أبي هريرة رضي الله عنه أيضًا أن رسول الله ﷺ قال؛ " لا يحل لامرأة أن تصوم وزوجها شاهد إلا بإذنه، ولا تأذن في بيته إلا بإذنه" ((متفق عليه وهذا لفظ البخاري)).
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Ibn 'Umar (May Allah be pleased with them) reported:
The Prophet ﷺ said, "All of you are guardians and are responsible for your subjects. The ruler is a guardian of his subjects, the man is a guardian of his family, the woman is a guardian and is responsible for her husband's house and his offspring; and so all of you are guardians and are responsible for your subjects."
[Al-Bukhari and Muslim].
وعن ابن عمر رضي الله عنهما عن النبي ﷺ قال: " كلكم راعٍ، وكلكم مسئول عن رعيته، والأمير راعٍ، والرجل راعٍ على أهل بيته؛ والمرأة راعية على بيت زوجها وولده، فكلكم راعٍ، وكلكم مسؤول عن رعيته" ((متفق عليه)).
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Abu 'Ali Talq bin 'Ali (May Allah be pleased with him) reported:
Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "When a man calls his wife to satisfy his desire, she must go to him even if she is occupied with the oven".
[At-Tirmidhi and An-Nasa'i].
وعن أبي علي طلق بن علي رضي الله عنه أن رسول الله ﷺ قال: " إذا دعا الرجل زوجته لحاجته فلتأته وإن كانت على التنور" ((رواه الترمذي والنسائي وقال الترمذي. حديث حسن صحيح)).
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Abu Hurairah (May Allah be pleased with him) reported:
The Prophet ﷺ said, "If I were to order anyone to prostrate himself before another, I would have ordered a woman to prostrate herself before her husband".
[At-Tirmidhi]
وعن أبي هريرة رضي الله عنه عن النبي ﷺ قال: " لو كنت آمرًا أحدًا أن يسجد لأحد لأمرت المرأة أن تسجد لزوجها" ((رواه الترمذي وقال : حديث حسن صحيح)).
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Umm Salamah (May Allah be pleased with her) reported:
Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "Any woman dies while her husband is pleased with her, she will enter Jannah".
[At- Tirmidhi].
وعن أم سلمة رضي الله عنها قالت: قال رسول الله ﷺ : " أيما امرأة ماتت، وزوجها عنها راضٍ دخلت الجنة" ((رواه الترمذي وقال حديث حسن)).
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Mu'adh bin Jabal (May Allah be pleased with him) reported:
The Prophet ﷺ said, "Whenever a woman harms her husband in this world (that is without any due right), his wife among the (Houris in Jannah) says: 'You must not harm him. May Allah destroy you! He is only a passing guest with you and is about to leave you to come to us".
[At-Tirmidhi].
وعن معاذ بن جبل رضي الله عنه عن النبي ﷺ قال: " لا تؤذي امرأة زوجها في الدنيا إلا قالت زوجة من الحور العين لا تؤذيه قاتلك الله! فإنما هو عندك دخيل يوشك أن يفارقك إلينا" ((رواه الترمذي وقال حديث حسن)).
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Usamah bin Zaid (May Allah be pleased with them) reported:
The Prophet ﷺ said, "I am not leaving behind me a more harmful trial for men than women".
[Al-Bukhari and Muslim].
وعن أسامة بن زيد رضي الله عنهما عن النبي ﷺ قال: " ما تركت بعدي فتنة هي أضر على الرجال من النساء" ((متفق عليه)).