Regarding A Man Who Goes To Battle While His Parents Object
باب فِي الرَّجُلِ يَغْزُو وَأَبَوَاهُ كَارِهَانِ
Sunan Abu Dawood, Book of Jihad (Kitab Al-Jihad)(view book)
Narrated Abdullah ibn Amr ibn al-'As:
A man came to the Messenger of Allah ﷺ and said: I came to you to take the oath of allegiance to you on emigration, and I left my parents weeping. He (the Prophet) said: Return to them and make them laugh as you made them weep.
حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ كَثِيرٍ، أَخْبَرَنَا سُفْيَانُ، حَدَّثَنَا عَطَاءُ بْنُ السَّائِبِ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ عَمْرٍو، قَالَ : جَاءَ رَجُلٌ إِلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ ﷺ فَقَالَ : جِئْتُ أُبَايِعُكَ عَلَى الْهِجْرَةِ وَتَرَكْتُ أَبَوَىَّ يَبْكِيَانِ . فَقَالَ : " ارْجِعْ عَلَيْهِمَا فَأَضْحِكْهُمَا كَمَا أَبْكَيْتَهُمَا " .
Classification
‘Abd Allah bin ‘Amr said “A man came to the Prophet ﷺ and said “Apostle of Allah ﷺ, May I take part in jihad?” He asked “Do you have parents?” He replied “Yes”. So, strive for them.”
Abu Dawud said:
The name of the narrator Abu al-'Abbas, a poet, is al-Sa'ib b. Farrukh.
حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ كَثِيرٍ، أَخْبَرَنَا سُفْيَانُ، عَنْ حَبِيبِ بْنِ أَبِي ثَابِتٍ، عَنْ أَبِي الْعَبَّاسِ، عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ عَمْرٍو، قَالَ : جَاءَ رَجُلٌ إِلَى النَّبِيِّ ﷺ فَقَالَ : يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ أُجَاهِدُ قَالَ : " أَلَكَ أَبَوَانِ " . قَالَ : نَعَمْ . قَالَ : " فَفِيهِمَا فَجَاهِدْ " . قَالَ أَبُو دَاوُدَ : أَبُو الْعَبَّاسِ هَذَا الشَّاعِرُ اسْمُهُ السَّائِبُ بْنُ فَرُّوخَ .
Classification
Narrated AbuSa'id al-Khudri:
A man emigrated to the Messenger of Allah ﷺ from the Yemen. He asked (him): Have you anyone (of your relatives) in the Yemen? He replied: My parents. He asked: Did they permit you? He replied: No. He said: Go back to them and ask for their permission. If they permit you, then fight (in the path of Allah), otherwise be devoted to them.
حَدَّثَنَا سَعِيدُ بْنُ مَنْصُورٍ، حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ وَهْبٍ، أَخْبَرَنِي عَمْرُو بْنُ الْحَارِثِ، أَنَّ دَرَّاجًا أَبَا السَّمْحِ، حَدَّثَهُ عَنْ أَبِي الْهَيْثَمِ، عَنْ أَبِي سَعِيدٍ الْخُدْرِيِّ، : أَنَّ رَجُلاً، هَاجَرَ إِلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ ﷺ مِنَ الْيَمَنِ، فَقَالَ : " هَلْ لَكَ أَحَدٌ بِالْيَمَنِ " . قَالَ : أَبَوَاىَ . قَالَ : " أَذِنَا لَكَ " . قَالَ : لاَ . قَالَ : " ارْجِعْ إِلَيْهِمَا فَاسْتَأْذِنْهُمَا، فَإِنْ أَذِنَا لَكَ فَجَاهِدْ، وَإِلاَّ فَبِرَّهُمَا " .