Sunan an-Nasa'i al-Kubra 7455
ʿUtbah b. ʿAbdullāh > Mālik b. Anas And al-Ḥārith b. Miskīn > Ibn al-Qāsim > Mālik > ʿAbdullāh b. ʿAbdullāh b. Jābir b. ʿAtīk > ʿAtīk b. al-Ḥārith > Jābir b. ʿAtīk
He informed him that the Prophet ﷺ came to visit Abdullah bin Thabit and found him defeated, so he shouted at him but he did not respond. So the Messenger of Allah ﷺ called him back and said, "We have been defeated on your behalf, O Abu Al-Rabi." The women began to wail and cry, so Ibn Atik silenced them. The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said, "Leave them, for when calamity strikes, let them wail." They said, "What is the calamity, O Messenger of Allah?" He said, "Death."
أَخْبَرَنَا عُتْبَةُ بْنُ عَبْدِ اللهِ قَالَ قَرَأْتُ عَلَى مَالِكِ بْنِ أَنَسٍ وَالْحَارِثِ بْنِ مِسْكِينٍ قِرَاءَةً عَلَيْهِ وَأنا أَسْمَعُ عَنِ ابْنِ الْقَاسِمِ قَالَ حَدَّثَنِي مَالِكٌ عَنْ عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ جَابِرِ بْنِ عَتِيكٍ أَنَّ عَتِيكَ بْنَ الْحَارِثِ أَخْبَرَهُ أَنَّ جَابِرَ بْنَ عَتِيكٍ
أَخْبَرَهُ أَنَّ النَّبِيَّ ﷺ جَاءَ يَعُودُ عَبْدَ اللهِ بْنَ ثَابِتٍ فَوَجَدَهُ قَدْ غُلِبَ فَصَاحَ بِهِ فَلَمْ يُجِبْهُ فَاسْتَرْجَعَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ فَقَالَ «غُلِبْنَا عَلَيْكَ يَا أَبَا الرَّبِيعِ» فَصِحْنَ النِّسْوَةُ وَبَكَيْنَ فَجَعَلَ ابْنُ عَتِيكٍ يُسَكِّتُهُنَّ فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ «دَعْهُنَّ فَإِذَا وَجَبَتْ فَلَا تَبْكِيَنَّ بَاكِيَةٌ» قَالُوا وَمَا الْوُجُوبُ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ؟ قَالَ الْمَوْتُ