Encouragement for Marrying Virgins
الْحَثُّ عَلَى نِكَاحِ الْأَبْكَارِ
Sunan an-Nasa'i al-Kubra, Book of Marriage(view book)
Qutaybah b. Saʿīd > Ḥammād > Ibn Zayd > ʿAmr / Ibn Dīnār > Jābir
It was narrated that Jabir said: "I got married then I came to the Prophet and he said: 'Have you got married, O Jabir?' I said: 'Yes.' He said: 'To a virgin or to a previously married woman?' I said: 'To a previously married woman.' He said: 'Why not a virgin, so you could play with her and she could play with you?'"
أَخْبَرَنَا قُتَيْبَةُ بْنُ سَعِيدٍ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا حَمَّادٌ هُوَ ابْنُ زَيْدٍ عَنْ عَمْرٍو يَعْنِي ابْنَ دِينَارٍ عَنْ جَابِرٍ قَالَ
تَزَوَّجْتُ فَأَتَيْتُ النَّبِيَّ ﷺ فَقَالَ «أَوَ تَزَوَّجْتَ يَا جَابِرُ؟» قُلْتُ نَعَمْ قَالَ «بِكْرٌ أَمْ ثَيِّبٌ؟» فَقُلْتُ لَا بَلْ ثَيِّبٌ قَالَ «فَهَلَّا بِكْرًا تُلَاعِبُهَا وَتُلَاعِبُكَ»
Classification
al-Ḥasan b. Qazʿah > Sufyān b. Ḥabīb > Ibn Jurayj > ʿAṭāʾ > Jābir
It was narrated that Jabir said: "The Messenger of Allah met me and said: 'O Jabir, have you got married to a woman since I last saw you?' I said: 'Yes, O Messenger of Allah.' He said: 'To a virgin or to a previously-married woman?' I said: 'To a previously-married woman.' He said: 'Why not a virgin, so she could play with you?'"
أَخْبَرَنَا الْحَسَنُ بْنُ قَزْعَةَ عَنْ سُفْيَانُ بْنُ حَبِيبٍ عَنِ ابْنِ جُرَيْجٍ عَنْ عَطَاءٍ عَنْ جَابِرٍ قَالَ
لَقِيَنِي رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ فَقَالَ «يَا جَابِرُ هَلْ أَصَبْتَ امْرَأَةً بَعْدِي؟» قُلْتُ نَعَمْ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ قَالَ «أَبِكْرٌ أَمْ أَيِّمٌ؟» قُلْتُ أَيِّمٌ قَالَ «فَهَلَّا بِكْرًا تُلَاعِبُكَ؟»