The Sunnah in divorce.
بَابُ السُّنَّةِ فِي الطَّلَاقِ
Sunan ad-Darimi, Book of Divorce(view book)
Khālid b. Makhlad > Mālik > Nāfiʿ > Ibn ʿUmar
"I divorced my wife when she was menstruating. 'Umar mentioned that to the Messenger of Allah and he said: 'Tell him to take her back until she becomes pure (i.e., her period ends), then she has her period (again), then she becomes pure (again), then if he wishes he may divorce her before having sexual relations with her, and if he wishes he may keep her. This is the waiting period that Allah has enjoined.'" – Strong Chain
أَخْبَرَنَا خَالِدُ بْنُ مَخْلَدٍ حَدَّثَنَا مَالِكٌ عَنْ نَافِعٍ عَنْ ابْنِ عُمَرَ
أَنَّهُ طَلَّقَ امْرَأَتَهُ وَهِيَ حَائِضٌ فَذَكَرَ ذَلِكَ عُمَرُ لِلنَّبِيِّ ﷺ فَقَالَ «مُرْهُ أَنْ يُرَاجِعَهَا وَيُمْسِكَهَا حَتَّى تَطْهُرَ ثُمَّ تَحِيضَ ثُمَّ تَطْهُرَ ثُمَّ إِنْ شَاءَ أَمْسَكَ وَإِنْ شَاءَ طَلَّقَ قَبْلَ أَنْ يَمَسَّ فَتِلْكَ الْعِدَّةُ الَّتِي أَمَرَ اللَّهُ أَنْ يُطَلَّقَ لَهَا النِّسَاءُ» – إسناده قوي
Classification
ʿUbaydullāh b. Mūsá > Sufyān > Muḥammad b. ʿAbd al-Raḥman > Sālim > Ibn ʿUmar > ʿUmar > Lilnnabī ﷺ Ḥīn Ṭallaq Ibn ʿUmar Āmraʾatah > Murh Falyurājiʿhā Thum Liyuṭalliqhā And Hī Ṭāhirah > Abū Muḥammad
"When the Prophet ﷺ divorced the wife of Ibn Umar, he said, 'Let him take her back and then divorce her while she is in a state of purity.' Abu Muhammad said, 'This was narrated by Ibn Al-Mubarak, Wakie, or Hamil.'" – Sound Chain
أَخْبَرَنَا عُبَيْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ مُوسَى أَنْبَأََنَا سُفْيَانُ عَنْ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ قَالَ سَمِعْتُ سَالِمًا يَذْكُرُ عَنْ ابْنِ عُمَرَ أَنَّ عُمَرَ قَالَ
لِلنَّبِيِّ ﷺ حِينَ طَلَّقَ ابْنُ عُمَرَ امْرَأَتَهُ فَقَالَ «مُرْهُ فَلْيُرَاجِعْهَا ثُمَّ لِيُطَلِّقْهَا وَهِيَ طَاهِرَةٌ» قَالَ أَبُو مُحَمَّد «رَوَاهُ ابْنُ الْمُبَارَكِ وَوَكِيعٌ أَوْ حَامِلٌ» – إسناده صحيح