To be polite and kind to the women
باب الْمُدَارَاةِ مَعَ النِّسَاءِ
Sahih al-Bukhari, Book of Wedlock, Marriage (Nikaah)(view book)
وَقَوْلِ النَّبِيِّ ﷺ: «إِنَّمَا الْمَرْأَةُ كَالضِّلَعِ».
Sahih al-Bukhari 5184
Narrated Abu Huraira:
Allah's Apostle ﷺ said, "The woman is like a rib;
if you try to straighten her, she will break. So if you want to get benefit from her, do so while she still has some crookedness."
حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الْعَزِيزِ بْنُ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ، قَالَ حَدَّثَنِي مَالِكٌ، عَنْ أَبِي الزِّنَادِ، عَنِ الأَعْرَجِ، عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ، أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ﷺ قَالَ " الْمَرْأَةُ كَالضِّلَعِ، إِنْ أَقَمْتَهَا كَسَرْتَهَا، وَإِنِ اسْتَمْتَعْتَ بِهَا اسْتَمْتَعْتَ بِهَا وَفِيهَا عِوَجٌ ".
Classification
Sahih (Authentic)